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A weekly phone friend for Bola, recovering at home after a long hospital stay

No advice needed - just a kind ear and some conversation for 30 minutes a week.

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Bola Vivian Raji
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Lagos
After a long hospital stay, I have been mostly housebound for 12 weeks. My family live far away, and the days can feel very long. I'm not looking for therapy - I've that covered - but for conversation. I'm hoping for someone who can call for about 30 minutes once a week whenever suits us both. I like music, books and gardening, and can listen to anything. This can be from anywhere in the world as long as you speak English. We can arrange the calls through the platform, with email shared only when we're both comfortable. Thanks for even thinking about it. Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.
effort
30 minutes a week
format
Online or by phone
skills
listening, patience

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  • You're not alone, Bola. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Blessings

    • hope this works out for you. I'm in engineering myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Love from Nagpur.

      • your post was clear and honest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Lagos.

        • Sajib Babu AhmedPhoto verified

          You're not alone, Bola. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. God bless.

          • Sending strength, Bola. Hope the doctors have good news. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

            • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't give up. Greetings from San Jose.

              • Lucía CabreraID verified

                Thanks for sharing this. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Please keep us posted. Blessings

                • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I'll check back for the next update. Thinking of Lagos

                  • Thinking of you and your family, Bola. Shared this with my family. Blessings

                    • You're not alone. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care

                      • Take care, Bola. Shared it with a few friends. I'm in farming myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

                        • stay strong, Bola. Looking forward to the next update. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from La Plata

                          • Shared this with my family. Put this on a community board in Fresno this morning!

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