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Care for Nova, 84: help cover a carer and medication in London

Nova can't afford the care She needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $3,950.

๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง England, United Kingdom1,980 views
Russell Gomez
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London
I'm caring for my mother, who's 84. After a diagnosis of dementia Nova can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Nova desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Nova worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $3,950 goes: โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $200 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $730 โ€ข Part-time carer (eight months): $3,020 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it.

Updates from Russell

  1. We're at 18% thanks to 16 of you. the first invoice got paid this week. More news soon.

  • Mangesh H. Jadhav ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $15

    โ€œGood luck. I'm in Thrissur, thinking of you.โ€

  • Vrushali B. Chheda ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $10
  • Neha N. Anand ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡น ยท $100
  • Lina Wafa Yassin ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $20

    โ€œHang in there. Thought of Nova all day after reading this. - Lyonโ€

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Wegayehu Mekdes Shiferaw ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡น ยท $50
  • Nur Fani Yuliani ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $71.50
  • Aurora Lawrence ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25
  • Cristian J. Tapia ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $100
  • Fernando Arthur Albuquerque ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10
  • Elijah H. Lynch ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $5
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $5
  • Clara T. Dean ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10
  • Amelia Richards ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $30

    โ€œStay strong. My mother told me about this one. - Colorado Springsโ€

  • Sun-hee Nam ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10

    โ€œSending love. Thought of Nova all day after reading this. - Fresnoโ€

  • Emilia E. Vazquez ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $50
  • Jaxon Peters ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $25
  • Seul-gi Su-bin Jang ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $15

    โ€œHang in there. Gave what I could this week. - Mapoโ€

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