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Roman wants to stay at home - help fund eight months of care

Help Roman stay in his own home with eight months of part-time care.

🇬🇧 Leeds, England, United Kingdom2,344 views
Axel R. Whitaker
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Leeds
I'm caring for my father, who's 76. After a diagnosis of dementia Roman can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Roman desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Roman worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $3,550 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $2,400 • Medication and prescriptions: $370 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $220 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $560 Thanks for reading all this. - Axel

Updates from Axel

  1. We're at 26% thanks to 33 of you. we've started the first stage. More news soon.

  2. We're at 14% thanks to 15 of you. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. More news soon.

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Reviews

2.7(7 reviews)

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  • Russell R. Elliott🇦🇺Verified helper
    Genuine person with a big heart

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

  • Farah Nour Shaker🇪🇸Verified donor
    Made a real difference

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Tewodros Abebe Haile🇪🇹Verified helper
    Truly grateful for the support

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Akinyi Wambui Omondi🇹🇿Verified donor
    Changed my perspective

    The support I received was beyond what I expected. Not only did they help with the immediate need, but they also provided guidance for long-term solutions. I'm forever grateful.

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    Would recommend to anyone

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

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    Exactly what I needed

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

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    Quick response, great follow-up

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

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  • so sorry you're going through this, Axel. Wishing Roman a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Take care.

    • Keep going. Get well soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Take care.

      • hope things get better soon, Axel. Shared it with a few friends. Take care

        • Sanjay A. MittalPhoto verified

          get well soon. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home

          • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Greetings from Derry.

            • thinking of you and your family. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Greetings from Dehiwala

              • Best of luck. I hope things turn around soon. It's not much but it's yours

                • Hope things get better soon, Axel. Hope you get there. God bless.

                  • Good luck. I hope things turn around soon. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Take care.

                    • wishing Roman a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Kano

                      • so sorry you're going through this, Axel. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Love from Anaheim.

                        • Stay strong, Axel. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from Nairobi

                          • Denise FigueroaID verified

                            Hope things get better soon, Axel. It takes guts to ask. Well done. God bless.

                            • Best of luck. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. We're a small family in Kingston but we're thinking of you. All the best.

                              • Praying for you, Axel. Looking forward to the next update. Love from Nîmes

                                • take care, Axel. Wishing Roman a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I went through something like this 9 years ago and strangers helped me out. Take care.

                                  • Reagan B. NealPhoto verified

                                    hope it all works out, Axel. I hope things turn around soon. Wish I lived closer to Fresno so I could bring a meal.

                                    • Wishing you peace, Axel. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier

                                      • get well soon. I'll check back for the next update. Blessings

                                        • Best of luck. I hope things turn around soon. My neighbor in Houston donated after I showed her your page. God bless.

                                          • Take care, Axel. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Blessings.

                                            • Get well soon. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Blessings

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