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Care for Shirin, 83: help cover a carer and medication in Dhaka

Help Shirin stay in her own home with eight months of part-time care.

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Lipi Ayesha Kabir
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Dhaka
I'm caring for my mother, who's 83. After the death of her spouse Shirin can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Shirin desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Shirin worked all of her life as a factory worker, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $350 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $70 • Part-time carer (eight months): $220 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to. - Lipi

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    “All the best. Thought of Shirin all day after reading this.”

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    “Good luck. Only $55 but hope it helps. - Oakland”

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    “Keep your head up - Mandaue”

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    “Keep your head up. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Mansoura”

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  • Sending strength. Shared it with a few friends. My neighbor in Shubra donated after I showed her your page. Love from Shubra.

    • Thinking of you. Wishing Shirin a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I went through something like this 7 years ago and strangers helped me out. Blessings.

      • How is Shirin doing now?

        • Sending love, Lipi. This could happen to any of us. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Greetings from Nha Trang.

          • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Dhaka!

            • Thank you. If you're in Dhaka I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks, that means a lot.

          • Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Huntsville.

            • Sneha C. ModiQuestionID verified

              Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Shirin.

              • Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. hospital bed and mattress rental comes first ($70) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. It helps to be asked.

            • Hope it all works out, Lipi. It takes guts to ask. Well done. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust

              • Praying for you, Lipi. Your post was clear and honest. All the best.

                • Get well soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Mumbai!

                  • Rooting for you. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My neighbor in Seongnam donated after I showed her your page. Thinking of Dhaka

                    • Sending good thoughts, Lipi. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. It's not much but it's yours. Love from Lagos.

                      • Praying for you. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. God bless.

                        • your post was clear and honest. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. All the best.

                          • Take care, Lipi. Hope you get there. My neighbor in Halifax donated after I showed her your page.

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