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Saying goodbye to Gugu - help with funeral expenses

After the sudden passing of Gugu, the family is asking for help with the funeral home and burial costs.

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Busisiwe L. Pretorius
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Soweto
Gugu, my mother, passed away on 17 July after complications from pneumonia. She was 89 years old. She was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance. The funeral home has given us a quote of $1,150 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 29 July. I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Gugu to have a dignified farewell. Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers. The funds will be paid directly to the funeral home, and I'll share the receipt. Where the $1,150 goes: • Funeral home services and casket: $820 • Cemetery plot and burial fees: $170 • Transport of the deceased: $100 • Memorial gathering for the family: $60 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to.

Updates from Busisiwe

  1. We're at 89% thanks to 28 of you. I met with the funeral home and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.

  2. Quick update: $465 raised so far (40%). the first invoice got paid this week. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Wanted to say thank you properly. 30% funded and the plan for cemetery plot and burial fees is now scheduled.

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  • Thanks for sharing this, Busisiwe. This could happen to any of us. I have a 16 year old who wants to send good wishes too

    • How is Busisiwe doing now?

      • You're not alone, Busisiwe. It takes guts to ask. Well done. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust

        • keep going. Your post was clear and honest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Quezon City.

          • Thinking of you and your family, Busisiwe. Looking forward to the next update. Thinking of Soweto.

            • Keep going, Busisiwe. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Nizamabad.

              • Rafaela Regina PradoPhoto verified

                Take care, Busisiwe. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Please keep us posted. Blessings

                • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. It's not much but it's yours. Greetings from Cần Thơ

                  • best of luck, Busisiwe. Shared this with my family. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

                    • Shared it with a few friends. Greetings from Jimma.

                      • wishing you peace, Busisiwe. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Thinking of Soweto.

                        • Shared this with my family. After 13 years in hospitality I know how hard it is to ask for anything. Thinking of Soweto.

                          • Thinking of you and your family. Looking forward to the next update. My neighbor in Machakos donated after I showed her your page

                            • hope you get there. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Thinking of Soweto.

                              • hope things get better soon. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Greetings from Caloocan

                                • Thinking of you and your family, Busisiwe. Gave what I could, wish it was more. All the best.

                                  • Lily MatthewsAddress verified

                                    Stay strong, Busisiwe. This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Medan this morning. Greetings from Medan.

                                    • Take care. Looking forward to the next update. After 19 years in public service I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

                                      • You're not alone, Busisiwe. Looking forward to the next update.

                                        • Wishing you the best. Looking forward to the next update. Love from Likoni.

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