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Obinna is a single parent of a teenage son and a daughter in primary school - help us after a sudden redundancy

A single parent in Gwagwalada needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Obinna retrains.

๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ Gwagwalada, Abuja FCT, Nigeria497 views
Obinna Okonkwo
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Gwagwalada
Last December I went through a sudden redundancy, and I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a hairdresser, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a medical coder in the evenings, which will triple my income by May, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $450 goes: โ€ข Rent top-up: $150 โ€ข Childcare and after-school care: $165 โ€ข Groceries and school meals: $100 โ€ข Course fees and exam costs: $35 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it. - Obinna

Updates from Obinna

  1. We're at 57% thanks to 8 of you. I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.

  2. Small update. $179 so far, the first invoice got paid this week.

  • Kwame Ebo Antwi ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $75
  • Mark S. Fernandez ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $5
  • Graciela T. Ibarra ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25

    โ€œEvery little bit. From San Diego with love.โ€

  • Sowmya W. Chettiar ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25

    โ€œBe well! - Tiruchirappalliโ€

  • Rajesh N. Rao ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $5

    โ€œStay strong. I'm in Mumbai, thinking of you. - Mumbaiโ€

  • Joon-woo Hyun-jun Ahn ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10
  • William B. Carter ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25

    โ€œThought of Obinna all day after reading this.โ€

  • Musa Uche Uzor ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $5
  • Karin D. Botha ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $10
  • Kevin R. Burton ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Raรบl A. Campos ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $52

    โ€œTake care of yourselves! - Alicanteโ€

  • Nicolรกs F. Mendoza ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ด ยท $5
  • Devi B. Rao ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $30
  • Tuhin Sumon Sen ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $44
  • Kunal N. Sethi ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100

Reviews

2.9(16 reviews)

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