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Kebede wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Kebede, 78, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $400 for a carer and medicines.

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Rahel Bethlehem Legesse
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I'm caring for my father, who's 78. After a diagnosis of dementia Kebede can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Kebede desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Kebede worked all of his life as a factory worker, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $400 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (three months): $350 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $30 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $20 Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.

Updates from Rahel

  1. Small update. $356 so far, I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 48% now ($190). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is now scheduled.

  3. We're at 43% thanks to 5 of you. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.

  • Madelyn T. Gilbert ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $50
  • Asif Noman Jahan ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $5
  • Saad Irfan Rana ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒ ยท $15

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  • Tahmina Rima Sultana ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25
  • Walter Brandt ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $10

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  • Joseph J. Fuller ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $30

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  • Suresh E. Malhotra ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $30
  • Noah J. Kim ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $5
  • Zeynep Meltem Karaca ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10

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  • Miles F. Schmidt ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $51
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25
  • Ilham Ilham Simanjuntak ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $30

    โ€œFrom my family to yours. Hope the November deadline works out. - Malangโ€

  • Konjit Tsion Zewdie ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡น ยท $10
  • Mercy Idowu Ogunleye ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $50
  • Asher A. Wade ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $10
  • Lavanya H. Sundaram ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $50

    โ€œTake care of yourselves. My sister told me about this one. - Nakuruโ€

  • Felipe Arthur Pereira ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $50
  • Yuri Anton Dmitriev ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $30

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  • You're not alone. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We're a small family in Marseille but we're thinking of you.

    • Lubna Jamila HegazyAddress verified

      shared it with a few friends. My husband and I read this together. Greetings from Casablanca.

      • Rooting for you. Hope you get there. We're a small family in Thiruvananthapuram but we're thinking of you.

        • Rooting for you. Hope the doctors have good news. After 20 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Awka.

          • Best of luck, Rahel. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like

            • hope things get better soon, Rahel. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. It's not much but it's yours.

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