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Home care fund for Fábio in Santos

Fábio can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $1,500.

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Luís Francisco Marques
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Santos
I'm caring for my father, who's 86. After a diagnosis of dementia Fábio can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Fábio desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Fábio worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,500 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $1,100 • Medication and prescriptions: $200 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $80 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $120 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.
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Updates from Luís

  1. Update from Santos: the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. We're at 73% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Small update. $487 so far, I made the first payment toward part-time carer.

  3. Quick update: $242 raised so far (16%). I made the first payment toward hospital bed and mattress rental. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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  • Anonymous 🇰🇷 · $200
  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $100
  • Mahesh Chaudhary 🇮🇳 · $100

    “Thought of Fábio all day after reading this. - Nashik”

  • Antonella Angela Grasso 🇮🇹 · $100
  • Anonymous 🇲🇽 · $100

    “Stay strong. Thought of Fábio all day after reading this. - Guadalajara”

  • Radha E. Rathore 🇮🇳 · $75
  • Anisa Citra Hartono 🇮🇩 · $50

    “Rooting for you. Only $50 but hope it helps. - Bogor”

  • Thu Oanh Ha 🇺🇸 · $50
  • Fahad Irfan Khan 🇵🇰 · $50
  • Lin Yu Cheng 🇨🇦 · $50
  • Antônia Elaine Teixeira 🇧🇷 · $50
  • Anton Dmytro Antonov 🇷🇺 · $50
  • Ana C. Solís 🇲🇽 · $42
  • Ida Weiß 🇩🇪 · $30

    “Happy to help. Hope you get the rest soon. - Freiburg”

  • Garba Yinka Zakari 🇳🇬 · $30
  • Maxim Maxim Tkachuk 🇺🇦 · $25

    “Thinking of you. Thought of Fábio all day after reading this. - Dnipro”

  • Farah Hana Abdallah 🇪🇬 · $25
  • Pamela E. Lawrence 🇺🇸 · $25

    “All the best. Only $25 but hope it helps. - San Diego”

  • Seema Luthra 🇬🇧 · $25

    “Wish I could do more. Thought of Fábio all day after reading this. - Manchester”

  • Anonymous 🇧🇷 · $25

    “Hope things get better. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Pelotas”

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  • Marisa Matilde Giordano

    Wishing you the best. Hope you get there. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. All the best.

    • Pieter J. Mahlangu

      Thinking of you and your family. I hope things turn around soon. Greetings from Toronto.

      • Seyi Nonso Oladipo

        Sending love. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. God bless.

        • Julia Nina BaumannID verified

          wishing you peace, Luís. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did.

          • Tejaswini P. Chandrasekhar

            it takes guts to ask. Well done. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Birmingham.

            • Nasser Mustafa Habib

              Keep going, Luís. Wishing Fábio a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Greetings from New Delhi.

              • Gilles Romain Denis

                Wishing you peace, Luís. Get well soon. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

                • Hazel E. CastroPhoto verified

                  thinking of you and your family. Looking forward to the next update. We're a small family in Aberdeen but we're thinking of you. Greetings from Aberdeen.

                  • Aarti F. Bhavsar

                    Rooting for you. Hope the doctors have good news. It's not much but it's yours. Love from Madrid.

                    • Hossain Dipu Uddin

                      Hope it all works out. Shared it with a few friends. I have a 7 year old who wants to send good wishes too.

                      • Leonardo Mateus CorreiaPhoto verified

                        Wishing you peace, Luís. Shared it with a few friends. Take care

                        • Marites E. Martinez

                          Thinking of you, Luís. Hope the doctors have good news. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Take care!

                          $1,396.50 raised of $1,500

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