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Hendra wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Hendra, 77, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $750 for a carer and medicines.

🇮🇩 Jakarta Selatan, DKI Jakarta, Indonesia803 views
Utami Gita Prasetyo
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Jakarta Selatan
I'm caring for my father, who's 77. After a heart attack Hendra can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Hendra desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Hendra worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $750 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $490 • Medication and prescriptions: $105 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $35 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $120 With deep gratitude, Utami

Updates from Utami

  1. Update from Jakarta Selatan: the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled. We're at 61% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 31% now ($232). I'm honestly stunned. I made the first payment toward mobility aids and bathroom adaptations.

  • Nahid Babu Molla 🇧🇩 · $25
  • Luiz Márcio Ferreira 🇧🇷 · $100
  • Mohammad Joy Chowdhury 🇬🇧 · $50
  • Teresa Julia Baran 🇵🇱 · $5
  • Suresh J. Raju 🇮🇳 · $100

    “Stay strong. Thought of Hendra all day after reading this. - Aurangabad”

  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $100
  • José Heitor Monteiro 🇧🇷 · $10
  • Aniket F. Chavan 🇮🇳 · $15
  • Anonymous 🇳🇬 · $100
  • Natalia Fotini Stavrou 🇬🇷 · $100
  • Gaurav T. Bajpai 🇮🇳 · $80

    “Hang in there. Hope the February deadline works out. - Varanasi”

  • Jessica F. Abrahams 🇿🇦 · $5
  • Hannah Theresa Donkor 🇬🇭 · $20
  • Kalyani S. Phadke 🇮🇳 · $100
  • Da-eun So-yeon Yang 🇰🇷 · $5
  • Mirjam Ellen Bos 🇳🇱 · $22

    “Hope this helps. Thought of Hendra all day after reading this. - Rotterdam”

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  • You're not alone, Utami. Shared it with a few friends. After 20 years in social work I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Epe.

    • Good luck. Hope the doctors have good news. My mother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Love from Alcalá de Henares

      $837 raised of $750

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