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Help Palesa get through 3 hard months with a teenage son and a daughter in primary school

Palesa and a teenage son and a daughter in primary school need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

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Palesa Abrahams
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Last March I went through my partner leaving, and I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a part-time receptionist, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by May, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $650 goes: โ€ข Course fees and exam costs: $175 โ€ข Rent top-up: $230 โ€ข Childcare and after-school care: $245 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

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    โ€œHope this helps. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Iztapalapaโ€

  • Maina Dennis Swai ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $59

    โ€œEvery little bit. I'm in Machakos, thinking of you. - Machakosโ€

  • Eoin K. Sheehan ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $20

    โ€œHope the May deadline works out. - Dublinโ€

  • Khalid Ahmed Osman ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Carmela L. Torres ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $50
  • Shawn B. Murray ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $26

    โ€œOnly $26 but hope it helps. - Southamptonโ€

  • Eugene P. Chavez ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $55
  • Aditi Sethi ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25
  • Jacob Phillips ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $5
  • Sami Karim Zidan ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $20

    โ€œBe well. Thought of Palesa all day after reading this. - Sacramentoโ€

  • Geeta H. Kapoor ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $50
  • Niall M. Martin ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $50

    โ€œGave what I could this week. - Galwayโ€

  • Chihiro Himari Murakami ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $68
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  • Rashidi Opio Kiptoo ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $10

    โ€œPraying for you. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Entebbeโ€

  • Garima K. Goyal ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $100
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  • Ji-yeon Soo-ah Son ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $50

    โ€œBlessings - Suwonโ€

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  • rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. All the best.

    • Rooting for you, Palesa. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. We're a small family in Saint-Denis but we're thinking of you. Thinking of East London.

      • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Palesa?

        • Palesa AbrahamsOwnerAnswerID verifiedPhoto verified

          Thank you. If you're in East London I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Good question.

      • Stay strong. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Rohini

        • Good luck, Palesa. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like

          • Thinking of you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My husband and I read this together. Greetings from Aurangabad

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