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Hatem wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Hatem can't afford the care He needs after a stroke last August; we're asking for $4,850.

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Samira Salma Ibrahim
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Birmingham
I'm caring for my father, who's 76. After a stroke last August Hatem can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Hatem desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Hatem worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,850 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $3,900 • Medication and prescriptions: $440 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $250 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $260 I hope life is good to you.

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  • take care. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor in Barcelona donated after I showed her your page. All the best

    • Stay strong, Samira. Hope the doctors have good news. All the best

      • Keep going. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My husband and I read this together. Love from Bhopal.

        • Take care, Samira. Shared it with a few friends. Blessings

          • wishing Hatem a smooth procedure and a full recovery. After 10 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Take care.

            • stay strong, Samira. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Love from Peoria.

              • Lei Ning JinQuestion

                is there anything that isn't money that would help Hatem?

                • Wishing you peace. Hope you get there. I'm in social work myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. All the best.

                  • Best of luck, Samira. Get well soon. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. God bless

                    • Tarun P. MishraPhoto verified

                      Hang in there. Wishing Hatem a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Love from Osaka

                      • Good luck, Samira. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Wish I lived closer to Hanoi so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Birmingham.

                        • Hope things get better soon. It takes guts to ask. Well done. It's not much but it's yours. God bless.

                          • take care, Samira. Hope you get there

                            • Wishing Hatem a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Thinking of Birmingham.

                              • Looking forward to the next update. My neighbor in Belém donated after I showed her your page

                                • this could happen to any of us. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Take care.

                                  • Thinking of you. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Wish I lived closer to Quezon City so I could bring a meal. God bless.

                                    • shared it with a few friends. Greetings from Nashville.

                                      • it takes guts to ask. Well done. Greetings from Greensboro.

                                        • Eiji Koji HashimotoAddress verified

                                          Thanks for sharing this. Hope the doctors have good news. Thinking of Birmingham.

                                          • Your post was clear and honest. After 26 years in customer support I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

                                            • sending love, Samira. Wishing Hatem a smooth procedure and a full recovery. It's not much but it's yours. Blessings.

                                              • thinking of you and your family, Samira. Hope you get there. Don't give up. Greetings from London

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