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Emily is a single parent of four children - help us after the death of my husband

Emily and four children need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

🇿🇦 5202, East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa1,079 views
Emily R. Pienaar
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East London
Last June I went through the death of my husband, and I'm now raising four children on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $600 goes: • Course fees and exam costs: $105 • Groceries and school meals: $260 • Childcare and after-school care: $235 If you're reading this, thank you.

Updates from Emily

  1. Update from East London: we've started the first stage. We're at 49% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Small update. $120 so far, I made the first payment toward course fees and exam costs.

  • Elena L. Arnold 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Ayu Sri Surya 🇮🇩 · $50
  • Nadine Emilia Schneider 🇩🇪 · $30

    “Keep your head up. Hope the October deadline works out. - Regensburg”

  • Beatrice Nakato Athumani 🇹🇿 · $10
  • Reagan Nguyen 🇬🇧 · $50
  • Sebastián N. Rojas 🇺🇸 · $40
  • Viviane Ingrid Bastos 🇧🇷 · $50
  • Chiara Alice Martino 🇮🇹 · $100
  • Nathan C. Stephens 🇺🇸 · $64
  • Birgit Julia Walter 🇩🇪 · $10
  • Hannah Georgina Danso 🇬🇭 · $75
  • Anonymous 🇳🇵 · $25
  • Dennis Hunter 🇬🇧 · $20

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  • Thinking of you and your family, Emily. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Please keep us posted.

    • Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Love from Mysuru.

      • Mim Ruma SultanaAddress verified

        Take care, Emily. Gave what I could, wish it was more. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Greetings from Tiruchirappalli

        • You're not alone, Emily. Hope this works out for you. Blessings.

          • It takes guts to ask. Well done. Love from Hamilton.

            • Hope this works out for you. Greetings from New Delhi!

              • Hope it all works out, Emily. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. After 22 years in public service I know how hard it's to ask for anything. God bless

                • Wishing you peace, Emily. This could happen to any of us

                  • Hope things get better soon, Emily. I hope things turn around soon

                    • Praying for you, Emily. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. My mother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Love from Coyoacán!

                      • Agnès Emma GerardAddress verified

                        Stay strong, Emily. Shared this with my family. Please keep us posted. Love from Istanbul.

                        • Juliette ColinID verified

                          Wishing you peace, Emily. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

                          • Thinking of you, Emily. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My father had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Greetings from Santos

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