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Dignity in old age: caring for Patrick

Help Patrick stay in his own home with six months of part-time care.

๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ Los Angeles, California, United States2,897 views
Patrick G. Acosta
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Los Angeles
I'm caring for me, who's 89. After worsening Parkinson's disease Patrick can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Patrick desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Patrick worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,550 goes: โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $240 โ€ข Part-time carer (six months): $3,850 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $460 Thanks for reading all this.

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  1. 48% there. the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled. Thank you.

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $1,000
  • Saima Mahnoor Ali ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $500
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $200
  • Deepa J. Joshi ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100

    โ€œThought of Patrick all day after reading this. - Durgapurโ€

  • Carlo N. Bautista ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $100
  • Ishita E. Rawat ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100
  • Zahra Ratna Kusuma ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $100
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $100

    โ€œGod bless. Hope the August deadline works out. - Flintโ€

  • Yuri Kozlov ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $100

    โ€œAll the best. My colleague told me about this one. - Lvivโ€

  • Padma D. Raju ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100
  • Gabriella Simona Conti ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น ยท $75

    โ€œBest of luck. Only $75 but hope it helps. - Palermoโ€

  • Raymond N. Gutierrez ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $63.50
  • Rebecca A. Kelly ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $61
  • Siyabonga Jacobs ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $56

    โ€œAll the best. Small amount but sent with love. - Mthathaโ€

  • Danish Arslan Aslam ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $55
  • Sharmila Ruma Molla ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $51
  • Akinyi Neema Urassa ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ฟ ยท $50

    โ€œBe well. Thought of Patrick all day after reading this. - Dar es Salaamโ€

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $50
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  • Wishing you peace, Patrick. I hope things turn around soon. Blessings

    • Stay strong. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Put this on a community board in Depok this morning. Blessings

      • wishing you the best, Patrick. Your post was clear and honest. Take care.

        • Praying for you, Patrick. Your post was clear and honest. Blessings.

          • sending love, Patrick. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Los Angeles.

            • Thinking of you, Patrick. This could happen to any of us. God bless.

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