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Dignity in old age: caring for Patrick

Help Patrick stay in his own home with six months of part-time care.

🇺🇸 Los Angeles, California, United States2,896 views
Patrick G. Acosta
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Los Angeles
I'm caring for me, who's 89. After worsening Parkinson's disease Patrick can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Patrick desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Patrick worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,550 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $240 • Part-time carer (six months): $3,850 • Medication and prescriptions: $460 Thanks for reading all this.

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  1. 48% there. the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled. Thank you.

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  • Wishing you peace, Patrick. I hope things turn around soon. Blessings

    • Stay strong. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Put this on a community board in Depok this morning. Blessings

      • wishing you the best, Patrick. Your post was clear and honest. Take care.

        • Praying for you, Patrick. Your post was clear and honest. Blessings.

          • sending love, Patrick. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Los Angeles.

            • Thinking of you, Patrick. This could happen to any of us. God bless.

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