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Dignity in old age: caring for Kai

Kai can't afford the care He needs after a fall and hip fracture; we're asking for $4,700.

🇨🇦 Ontario, Canada5,104 views
Lawrence Neal
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Ottawa
I'm caring for my father, who's 91. After a fall and hip fracture Kai can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Kai desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Kai worked all of his life as a bus driver, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,700 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $3,200 • Medication and prescriptions: $430 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $410 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $660 Thanks for being kind about this. - Lawrence

Updates from Lawrence

  1. We're at 86% thanks to 90 of you. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. More news soon.

  2. Small update. $2,712 so far, we've started the first stage.

  3. Quick update: $1,060 raised so far (23%). the plan for mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is now scheduled. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Ella N. Cortez 🇬🇧 · $10

    “Thought of Kai all day after reading this. - Coventry”

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  • Delilah G. Langley 🇺🇸 · $30
  • Nipa Nusrat Sen 🇧🇩 · $39
  • Ochieng Mwangi Kato 🇰🇪 · $25
  • Marlene Katharina Zimmermann 🇩🇪 · $10
  • Sebastian C. Vasquez 🇺🇸 · $30
  • Adaeze Afolabi 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Ellie B. Graham 🇺🇸 · $30
  • Cheikh Bakary Diarra 🇫🇷 · $100
  • Teresa A. Cortés 🇨🇴 · $100
  • Angel K. Castro 🇵🇭 · $36
  • Beatriz N. González 🇲🇽 · $25
  • Kofi Nana Adjei 🇬🇭 · $5
  • Rasha Maryam Nasser 🇸🇦 · $10

    “Wishing you the best. Thought of Kai all day after reading this. - Mecca”

  • Anonymous 🇵🇰 · $63
  • Patrícia Gabriela Carvalho 🇧🇷 · $25
  • Tyler Ward 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Riddhi Gokhale 🇮🇳 · $12

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  • Verónica H. PachecoPhoto verified

    wishing Kai a smooth procedure and a full recovery. It's not much but it's yours

    • get well soon. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Take care.

      • Ishita N. ChaudharyPhoto verified

        rooting for you. Looking forward to the next update. My neighbor in Auckland donated after I showed her your page. All the best.

        • wishing Kai a smooth procedure and a full recovery. It's not much but it's yours.

          $5,369.50 raised of $4,700

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