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Lucía wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Help Lucía stay in her own home with six months of part-time care.

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Rafael N. Ávila
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Iztapalapa
I'm caring for my mother, who's 74. After a diagnosis of dementia Lucía can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Lucía desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Lucía worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,200 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $970 • Medication and prescriptions: $115 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $115 Thank you for reading my story. - Rafael

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  • Sending good thoughts. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from Thủ Đức!

    • Hope it all works out. I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Blessings.

      • Thinking of you and your family. Hope the doctors have good news. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Blessings

        • this could happen to any of us. Sent it to 19 people at work.

          • take care, Rafael. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. It's not much but it's yours.

            • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Lucía.

              • Rafael N. ÁvilaOwnerAnswer

                Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. part-time carer (six months) comes first ($970) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Good question.

            • Rooting for you. Your post was clear and honest. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Metz.

              • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Lucía?

                • Rafael N. ÁvilaOwnerAnswer

                  Thank you. If you're in Iztapalapa I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Let me know if you want more detail.

              • Good luck, Rafael. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Take care

                • Good luck, Rafael. Hope this works out for you. Wish I lived closer to Kasarani so I could bring a meal.

                  • a colleague of mine might know someone for this in Ciudad de México. I'll ask around and let you know

                    • best of luck, Rafael. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't give up

                      • hope it all works out. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Love from Leeds.

                        • Sending love. I hope things turn around soon. I'm in public service myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Greetings from Tokyo

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