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Lilian wants to stay at home - help fund eight months of care

Lilian, 88, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $500 for a carer and medicines.

🇳🇬 Port Harcourt, Rivers, Nigeria1,517 views
Nneka Khadija Ogunleye
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Port Harcourt
I'm caring for my mother, who's 88. After a diagnosis of dementia Lilian can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Lilian desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Lilian worked all of her life as a schoolteacher, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $500 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $25 • Part-time carer (eight months): $450 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $25 Thank you so much.

Updates from Nneka

  1. Small update. $78 so far, I made the first payment toward mobility aids and bathroom adaptations.

  2. Quick update: $78 raised so far (16%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Update from Port Harcourt: the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled. We're at 10% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

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  • Samuel N. WallaceID verifiedPhoto verified

    Get well soon. We're a small family in Montgomery but we're thinking of you. Blessings

    • Sunita W. SethPhoto verified

      Thinking of you and your family, Nneka. Get well soon. Greetings from Mbale

      • Hope you get there. Love from Augsburg

        • You're not alone, Nneka. Hope the doctors have good news. I hope February is when things finally get easier.

          $127 raised of $500

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