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Thabo, 95, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,500 for a carer and medicines.

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Thabo R. Jones
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I'm caring for me, who's 95. After a fall and hip fracture Thabo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Thabo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Thabo worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,500 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $95 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $80 • Part-time carer (six months): $1,325 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

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    “Hope it all works out. Thought of Thabo all day after reading this.”

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  • Keep going. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected

    • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near East London

      • Thabo R. JonesOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

        Thank you. If you're in East London I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks, that means a lot.

    • Andrea S. GutiérrezAddress verified

      sending love, Thabo. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Take care.

      • Shared it with a few friends. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Greetings from Saint Petersburg.

        • Hang in there. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust.

          • Obinna Seyi BelloQuestionID verified

            Any update on how things are going in East London?

            • Sending strength, Thabo. Wishing Thabo a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Take care.

              • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Thabo

                • Thabo R. JonesOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

                  The list at the bottom is the whole picture. hospital bed and mattress rental is the biggest at $95. Happy to explain more.

              • Shared this with my family. I have a 17 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Love from Montpellier.

                • Anil G. PandeyPhoto verified

                  So sorry you're going through this. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. After 20 years in nursing I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Take care.

                  • Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I have a 15 year old who wants to send good wishes too. All the best

                    • hope it all works out, Thabo. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

                      • Hope it all works out. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Blessings.

                        • Thanks for sharing this, Thabo. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My neighbor in Southampton donated after I showed her your page.

                          • So sorry you're going through this, Thabo. Hope you get there. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Blessings!

                            • Hope it all works out, Thabo. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My husband and I read this together. Blessings.

                              • Praying for you, Thabo. Hope the doctors have good news. Love from Jakarta.

                                • Keep going, Thabo. Shared this with my family. I have a 8 year old who wants to send good wishes too. God bless.

                                  • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I have a 5 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Thinking of East London

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