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Home care fund for Declan in London

Declan, 86, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $5,050 for a carer and medicines.

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Peyton F. Whitfield
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London
I'm caring for my father, who's 86. After worsening Parkinson's disease Declan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Declan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Declan worked all of his life as a bus driver, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,050 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $4,200 • Medication and prescriptions: $370 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $175 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $305 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.

Updates from Peyton

  1. Thank you all. We're at 12% now ($593). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled.

  • Carlos Tiago Andrade 🇧🇷 · $20
  • Arun Ramachandran 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Dinesh Nalin Pathirana 🇱🇰 · $24

    “God bless. Hope you get the rest soon. - Kandy”

  • Alexandra A. Burton 🇬🇧 · $30
  • Vishal Seth 🇮🇳 · $250
  • Ahmet Alp Kaya 🇹🇷 · $20
  • Anonymous 🇸🇦 · $250

    “Take care of yourselves. Been where you are, it gets better. - Riyadh”

  • Colton Rice 🇺🇸 · $26
  • Jepkoech Amani Ssebuliba 🇰🇪 · $15

    “Thought of Declan all day after reading this. - Mombasa”

  • Princess H. Zamora 🇵🇭 · $10
  • Bithi Lipi Miah 🇧🇩 · $20
  • Rahul R. Chopra 🇮🇳 · $5
  • Thomas Ray 🇦🇺 · $20
  • Kausar Afshan Tarar 🇵🇰 · $67

    “All the best. Gave what I could this week. - Karachi”

  • Kajal F. Chauhan 🇮🇳 · $50

    “Sending love. Thought of Declan all day after reading this.”

  • Christopher Brown 🇺🇸 · $66.50

    “Stay strong. Only $67 but hope it helps. - Hialeah”

  • Laura K. Tapia 🇲🇽 · $64
  • Sebastian Werner 🇩🇪 · $20
  • Emon Milon Khan 🇬🇧 · $50

    “Wishing you the best. Saw your post and had to give. - Nottingham”

  • Anonymous 🇵🇰 · $79

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  • Rooting for you. I hope things turn around soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Greetings from Southampton!

    • Get well soon. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. All the best.

      • Guadalupe S. QuinteroPhoto verified

        take care. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I hope April is when things finally get easier

        • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Wish I lived closer to Bonny so I could bring a meal. Greetings from Anaheim.

          • Good luck, Peyton. Get well soon. God bless.

            • Praying for you. Wishing Declan a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Please keep us posted.

              • Bình Anh HoID verified

                Praying for you. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from Haarlem.

                • Letícia Bianca CostaPhoto verified

                  Hope things get better soon. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Thinking of London

                  $3,169 raised of $5,050

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