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Help Tommaso get through 5 hard months with a teenage son and a daughter in primary school

Tommaso and a teenage son and a daughter in primary school need a bridge to stability after a sudden redundancy.

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Tommaso Fiore
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Rome
Since a sudden redundancy in July, I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a hairdresser, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a medical coder in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,000 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,550 • Childcare and after-school care: $520 • Groceries and school meals: $480 • Course fees and exam costs: $450 I hope life is good to you. - Tommaso

Updates from Tommaso

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($1,519 in total) the plan for childcare and after-school care is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. Small update. $564 so far, I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts.

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    “Take care of yourselves. Thought of Tommaso all day after reading this. - San Jose”

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    “Hope it all works out. Hope you get the rest soon. - Colorado Springs”

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    “All the best. Shared with friends too. - Kakamega”

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  • Hang in there. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. After 10 years in engineering I know how hard it's to ask for anything. All the best.

    • wishing you the best. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. God bless

      • thinking of you and your family, Tommaso. Shared it with a few friends. All the best

        • praying for you, Tommaso. Looking forward to the next update.

          • you're not alone, Tommaso. Shared this with my family. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Cleveland.

            • how is Tommaso doing now?

              • Sending love. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. After 25 years in nursing I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

                • sending good thoughts. Shared this with my family. Take care.

                  • Aaron B. KnightPhoto verified

                    So sorry you're going through this, Tommaso. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

                    • Hope this works out for you. After 29 years in construction I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Thinking of Rome.

                      • Thanks for sharing this, Tommaso. It takes guts to ask. Well done.

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