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Help Mila get through 4 hard months with twin daughters

Mila and twin daughters need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

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Mila Hanneke Martens
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After the death of my husband in April, I'm now raising twin daughters on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by August, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $2,500 goes: • Groceries and school meals: $670 • Rent top-up: $1,350 • Course fees and exam costs: $480 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Mila

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  • you're not alone. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. My husband and I read this together. All the best.

    • thanks for sharing this. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better

      • best of luck, Mila. Shared it with a few friends. After 18 years in hospitality I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Take care.

        • Praying for you. Looking forward to the next update. Please keep us posted. Thinking of Amsterdam!

          • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Amsterdam.

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