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Mila and twin daughters need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

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Mila Hanneke Martens
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After the death of my husband in April, I'm now raising twin daughters on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by August, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $2,500 goes: โ€ข Groceries and school meals: $670 โ€ข Rent top-up: $1,350 โ€ข Course fees and exam costs: $480 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Mila

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  • Courtney G. Johnson ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $5

    โ€œThought of Mila all day after reading this. - Torontoโ€

  • Bridget C. Magee ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $25

    โ€œPraying for you. Only $25 but hope it helps. - Dublinโ€

  • Lata T. Nanda ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $10
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  • Walker Hamilton ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25

    โ€œTake care of yourselves. Only $25 but hope it helps. - Orlandoโ€

  • Cornelis Van der Horst ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $10
  • Jose T. Navarro ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $30

    โ€œHope it all works out. Only $30 but hope it helps. - Makatiโ€

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $100

    โ€œThought of Mila all day after reading this. - Santosโ€

  • Regina C. Rojas ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $50
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $10
  • Kimberly G. Hernandez ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $25

    โ€œHang in there. Please keep us posted. - Lavalโ€

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  • Mehwish Shaista Qureshi ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $250
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  • Parvin Fatema Karim ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $25

    โ€œBest of luck. My father told me about this one. - Chattogramโ€

  • Axel F. Ayala ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ป๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $10

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  • you're not alone. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. My husband and I read this together. All the best.

    • thanks for sharing this. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better

      • best of luck, Mila. Shared it with a few friends. After 18 years in hospitality I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Take care.

        • Praying for you. Looking forward to the next update. Please keep us posted. Thinking of Amsterdam!

          • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Amsterdam.

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