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Dignity in old age: caring for Vusi

Vusi, 81, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $850 for a carer and medicines.

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Francois Sithole
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Pretoria
I'm caring for my father, who's 81. After the death of his spouse Vusi can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Vusi desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Vusi worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $850 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $570 • Medication and prescriptions: $100 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $85 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $95 Thanks for being kind about this. - Francois

Updates from Francois

  1. We're at 85% thanks to 11 of you. I made the first payment toward medication and prescriptions. More news soon.

  2. 56% there. the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled. Thank you.

  • Leo P. Brooks 🇺🇸 · $20

    “Keep your head up. This is from my last paycheck, glad to do it. - Tacoma”

  • Jade T. Cortez 🇺🇸 · $25
  • Ingrid Nina Martens 🇳🇱 · $8
  • Márcia Viviane Coelho 🇧🇷 · $66.50
  • Ines Rania Taha 🇪🇬 · $50

    “God bless. Please keep us posted. - Giza”

  • Anonymous 🇰🇪 · $10
  • Linda Felicia Nkrumah 🇬🇭 · $5

    “Good luck! - Kumasi”

  • James Joseph Nakamya 🇺🇬 · $20
  • Danuta Lena Sokołowski 🇵🇱 · $30
  • Rowena S. Gonzales 🇵🇭 · $15
  • Niklas Maier 🇩🇪 · $10
  • Rotimi Michael Raji 🇳🇬 · $20
  • Michael Carter 🇺🇸 · $75

    “Wish I could do more. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Winston-Salem”

  • Peace Halima Nwosu 🇳🇬 · $75

    “Get well soon. My colleague told me about this one. - Badagry”

  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Derek E. Patel 🇬🇧 · $25

    “Sending love - Belfast”

  • Paolo D. Villanueva 🇵🇭 · $42.50
  • Shailesh F. Doshi 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Megan Fortuin 🇿🇦 · $10
  • Maeve S. Donnelly 🇮🇪 · $50

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  • Stay strong. Shared this with my family. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Love from Kozhikode.

    • Sending good thoughts, Francois. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Take care

      • take care. Wishing Vusi a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day

        $999.50 raised of $850

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