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Dignity in old age: caring for Vijay

Vijay, 79, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,000 for a carer and medicines.

🇮🇳 Siliguri, West Bengal, India1,278 views
Diya H. Tandon
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Siliguri
I'm caring for my father, who's 79. After a fall and hip fracture Vijay can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Vijay desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Vijay worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,000 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $740 • Medication and prescriptions: $105 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $25 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $130 With deep gratitude, Diya

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    “Thought of Vijay all day after reading this. - Wollongong”

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  • Hope things get better soon. Hope you get there. Don't give up. Love from Calamba!

    • Sneha K. MohanPhoto verified

      Hang in there. Shared this with my family. After 11 years in construction I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

      • everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Put this on a community board in Erie this morning

        • Aditi A. RandhawaPhoto verified

          Sending love, Diya. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Blessings.

          • Praying for you, Diya. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick.

            • hope things get better soon, Diya. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes.

              • Best of luck, Diya. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Take care

                • Thinking of you and your family, Diya. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

                  • Thinking of you and your family, Diya. Shared this with my family. It's not much but it's yours

                    • Best of luck, Diya. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Sent it to 28 people at work. Take care.

                      • Thinking of you and your family, Diya. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. It's not much but it's yours.

                        • Miguel Ronaldo LimaID verifiedPhoto verified

                          looking forward to the next update. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Greetings from Santa Rosa.

                          • Wishing you the best, Diya. Hope you get there. We're a small family in Abuja but we're thinking of you. All the best

                            • So sorry you're going through this. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Love from Gujranwala.

                              • you're not alone, Diya. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. God bless.

                                • thinking of you. Shared this with my family. I'm in customer support myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. God bless.

                                  • Wishing you peace, Diya. Shared it with a few friends. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Rawalpindi.

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