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Dignity in old age: caring for Ștefan

Ștefan, 85, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $2,100 for a carer and medicines.

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Adrian Ionuț Constantin
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Iași
I'm caring for my father, who's 85. After worsening Parkinson's disease Ștefan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ștefan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Ștefan worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $2,100 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $1,400 • Medication and prescriptions: $330 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $150 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $220 Thanks for reading all this.

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  • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Ștefan?

    • Thank you. If you're in Iași I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Let me know if you want more detail.

  • Take care, Adrian. Your post was clear and honest. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Greetings from Rajshahi.

    • Hang in there. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor in Salem donated after I showed her your page.

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