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Dignity in old age: caring for Seydou

Seydou, 85, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $5,250 for a carer and medicines.

🇫🇷 Paris, Île-de-France, France1,989 views
Seydou Sy
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I'm caring for me, who's 85. After a diagnosis of dementia Seydou can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Seydou desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Seydou worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,250 goes: • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $510 • Medication and prescriptions: $550 • Part-time carer (three months): $4,190 I hope life is good to you.

Updates from Seydou

  1. We're at 19% thanks to 36 of you. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. More news soon.

  2. Small update. $616 so far, the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled.

  • Umar Reza Tampubolon 🇮🇩 · $5
  • Saad Naveed Ismail 🇵🇰 · $63
  • Yusuf Metin Tekin 🇹🇷 · $5

    “Thought of Seydou all day after reading this. - Istanbul”

  • Lipi Mitu Siddique 🇧🇩 · $20

    “Stay strong. My cousin told me about this one. - Comilla”

  • Isaac Uche Alabi 🇳🇬 · $50
  • Sachin K. Dhawan 🇮🇳 · $25

    “Wish I could do more. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Vadodara”

  • Hye-won Hye-jin Ahn 🇰🇷 · $20

    “Hope things get better. Been where you're, it gets better. - Seoul”

  • Armando C. Cabrera 🇨🇴 · $20
  • Perla C. Pineda 🇵🇭 · $10
  • Rose M. Dela Cruz 🇵🇭 · $20
  • William Gunnarsson 🇸🇪 · $50

    “Sending love. Hope the December deadline works out. - Stockholm”

  • Jepkoech Florence Njoroge 🇰🇪 · $25

    “Praying for you. I'm in Embakasi, thinking of you. - Embakasi”

  • Kiran Maryam Ali 🇵🇰 · $25
  • Walter Anton Wolff 🇩🇪 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇬🇷 · $25

    “Every little bit. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Athens”

  • Sohel Rahim Das 🇧🇩 · $50

    “Every little bit. Only $50 but hope it helps. - Savar”

  • Dian Siti Effendi 🇮🇩 · $25
  • Sébastien Mathieu Pierre 🇫🇷 · $25

    “You got this. My sister told me about this one. - Paris”

  • Citlali W. Flores 🇨🇴 · $69

    “Rooting for you. Small amount but sent with love. - Medellín”

  • Sharmin Jannat Sultana 🇧🇩 · $20

    “Every little bit. Thought of Seydou all day after reading this. - Chattogram”

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  • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Seydou?

    • Seydou SyOwnerAnswerAddress verified

      Thank you. If you're in Paris I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. It helps to be asked.

  • Thinking of you. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

    • Hang in there, Seydou. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Blessings.

      • Moshe PeretzQuestion

        Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Seydou

        • Seydou SyOwnerAnswerAddress verified

          Sure. The biggest one is mobility aids and bathroom adaptations, $510. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Good question.

      • Wishing you the best, Seydou. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did.

        • Hope you get there. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Greetings from Karachi.

          • I hope things turn around soon. Thinking of Paris.

            $2,766 raised of $5,250

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