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Dignity in old age: caring for Robert

Robert, 94, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $2,900 for a carer and medicines.

๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง LE9 1FZ, Leicester, England, United Kingdom2,442 views
Ruby McDonald
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I'm caring for my father, who's 94. After a heart attack Robert can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Robert desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Robert worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $2,900 goes: โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $430 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $420 โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $2,050 Glad we found this place. - Ruby

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  • Willow Pearson ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $200
  • Sarah Sandra Adjei ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $200

    โ€œThought of Robert all day after reading this. - Obuasiโ€

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  • Jide Obi ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $75

    โ€œHope it all works out. Thought of Robert all day after reading this. - Port Harcourtโ€

  • Roman Carlson ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $75
  • Cesar H. Flores ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $73
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    โ€œSending love. Only $56 but hope it helps. - Thaneโ€

  • Patrick Wells ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $53.50
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $51.50

    โ€œThought of Robert all day after reading this. - Belfastโ€

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    โ€œPraying for you. Hope the September deadline works out. - Jeddahโ€

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    โ€œTake care of yourselves. Hope you get the rest soon. - Duque de Caxiasโ€

  • Tamaki Himari Inoue ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $50
  • Hugo F. Franco ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $40

    โ€œTake care of yourselves. Been where you're, it gets better. - Akronโ€

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  • shared it with a few friends. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Blessings.

    • gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from George.

      • is there anything that isn't money that would help Robert?

        • Ruby McDonaldOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

          Thank you. If you're in Leicester I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Appreciate you taking the time.

      • reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Greetings from Cairo!

        • Sending love, Ruby. Looking forward to the next update. Sent it to 34 people at work. Greetings from Dharan.

          • Stay strong, Ruby. Looking forward to the next update. Blessings.

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