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Dignity in old age: caring for Mateus

Mateus can't afford the care He needs after the death of his spouse; we're asking for $1,250.

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Manoel Rodrigo Barbosa
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Recife
I'm caring for my father, who's 75. After the death of his spouse Mateus can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Mateus desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Mateus worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,250 goes: • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $85 • Medication and prescriptions: $155 • Part-time carer (six months): $1,010 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to. - Manoel

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  • Best of luck. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Gaya

    • Roman WebbPhoto verified

      thinking of you and your family. Shared this with my family. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Thinking of Recife.

      • Take care, Manoel. Hope this works out for you. I have a 17 year old who wants to send good wishes too.

        • Emma Florence FleuryPhoto verified

          Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I went through something like this 13 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

          • Hope things get better soon, Manoel. Hope you get there. Take care

            • Sending good thoughts, Manoel. This could happen to any of us. Greetings from Warsaw.

              • can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Recife.

                • Thank you. If you're in Recife I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Appreciate you taking the time.

              • Sending good thoughts. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Kolkata.

                • hang in there, Manoel. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. It's not much but it's yours

                  • sending strength, Manoel. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did.

                    • Hope things get better soon. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Wish I lived closer to Thrissur so I could bring a meal. Greetings from Savar

                      • Keep going. Get well soon. Don't give up. Love from Osaka!

                        • Thanks for sharing this, Manoel. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. It's not much but it's yours. All the best

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