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Dignity in old age: caring for Massimo

Massimo, 79, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $2,950 for a carer and medicines.

🇮🇹 Bologna, Emilia-Romagna, Italy1,886 views
Massimo Fabio Gentile
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Bologna
I'm caring for me, who's 79. After worsening Parkinson's disease Massimo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Massimo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Massimo worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $2,950 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $1,700 • Medication and prescriptions: $510 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $300 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $440 If you're reading this, thank you.

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    “Thought of Massimo all day after reading this. - Bandung”

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    “Stay strong - Hobart”

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    “Wish I could do more. Only $40 but hope it helps. - Lahore”

  • Naomi M. Caldwell 🇬🇧 · $5
  • Soo-ah So-yeon Sung 🇰🇷 · $50

    “Thinking of you. Only $50 but hope it helps. - Mapo”

  • Nirali G. Modi 🇮🇳 · $100
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  • Thinking of you and your family. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Thinking of Bologna.

    • Sending good thoughts, Massimo. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Love from New Delhi.

      • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Massimo.

        • Massimo Fabio GentileOwnerAnswerAddress verified

          Sure. The biggest one is part-time carer (eight months), $1,700. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Fair thing to want to know.

      • Good luck. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Mumbai

        • how is Massimo doing now?

          • Get well soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Bologna!

            • Get well soon. I went through something like this 14 years ago and strangers helped me out.

              • you're not alone, Massimo. Wishing Massimo a smooth procedure and a full recovery

                • Tunde Garba UbaPhoto verified

                  Best of luck, Massimo. I hope things turn around soon. Take care

                  • Rooting for you. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I went through something like this 13 years ago and strangers helped me out.

                    • Good luck. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Thinking of Bologna

                      • Good luck, Massimo. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Take care.

                        • Hope things get better soon. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Warri.

                          • Best of luck, Massimo. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest.

                            • a colleague of mine might know someone for this in Emilia-Romagna. I'll ask around and let you know

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