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Dignity in old age: caring for Mary

Mary can't afford the care She needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $900.

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Mary Apio Kimaro
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Entebbe
I'm caring for me, who's 78. After a diagnosis of dementia Mary can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Mary desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Mary worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $900 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $700 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $95 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $40 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $65 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself.

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Reviews

3.3(6 reviews)

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  • Paola Matilde Marini๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡นVerified helper
    Professional and kind

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Douglas L. Juarez๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified helper
    Quick response, great follow-up

    This helper is honest and transparent about what they can do. They didn't overpromise, but they did deliver excellent results. I would definitely trust them again.

  • Noor Rasha Hamdan๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified donor
    Very responsive and caring

    The support I received was beyond what I expected. Not only did they help with the immediate need, but they also provided guidance for long-term solutions. I'm forever grateful.

  • Omondi Mwende Onyango๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ชVerified donor
    Professional and kind

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Murat Okan Bulut๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ทVerified donor
    Patient and understanding

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

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    Genuine person with a big heart

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

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  • Nana William DonkorPhoto verified

    keep going, Mary. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Please keep us posted. Greetings from Alexandria.

    • Good luck, Mary. Gave what I could, wish it was more

      • Gabriela H. RรญosPhoto verified

        Hope things get better soon, Mary. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

        • Sending strength, Mary. Shared it with a few friends. Thinking of Entebbe

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