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Dignity in old age: caring for Mariana

Help Mariana stay in her own home with eight months of part-time care.

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Ana Maria Ferreira
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São Paulo
I'm caring for my mother, who's 82. After a heart attack Mariana can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Mariana desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Mariana worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,500 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $1,050 • Medication and prescriptions: $190 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $100 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $160 Thank you so much. - Ana

Updates from Ana

  1. We're at 59% thanks to 23 of you. the first invoice got paid this week. More news soon.

  2. Small update. $383 so far, I made the first payment toward medication and prescriptions.

  3. Wanted to say thank you properly. 13% funded and the plan for medication and prescriptions is now scheduled.

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  • look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Thinking of São Paulo.

    • Best of luck, Ana. Your post was clear and honest.

      • Shared this with my family. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Thinking of São Paulo.

        • Wishing you peace, Ana. I hope things turn around soon. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. All the best.

          • Keep going, Ana. Your post was clear and honest. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

            • Umesh F. TiwariPhoto verified

              Thanks for sharing this. Hope this works out for you. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home

              • Take care. This could happen to any of us. Love from Cartagena

                • So sorry you're going through this. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'll check back for the next update. God bless.

                  • Keep going. Shared it with a few friends. I hope February is when things finally get easier. Greetings from Rome

                    • Thinking of you and your family, Ana. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Blessings

                      • wishing you peace, Ana. Hope you get there. Take care.

                        • Rooting for you. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Put this on a community board in Iloilo City this morning.

                          • Keep going. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My husband and I read this together. Love from Medellín

                            • sending love, Ana. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. All the best.

                              • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Take care.

                                • Natalia J. GordonPhoto verified

                                  Praying for you, Ana. Hope this works out for you. All the best.

                                  • Hope things get better soon, Ana. Your post was clear and honest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

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