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Dignity in old age: caring for Kendall

Kendall, 96, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $4,650 for a carer and medicines.

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Lauren D. Hudson
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Arlington
I'm caring for my mother, who's 96. After worsening Parkinson's disease Kendall can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Kendall desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Kendall worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,650 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $290 • Medication and prescriptions: $750 • Part-time carer (eight months): $3,610 If you're reading this, thank you. - Lauren

Updates from Lauren

  1. Update from Arlington: we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. We're at 7% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  • Jackson Davis 🇺🇸 · $25
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    “Thinking of you! - Nijmegen”

  • Aishwarya J. Menon 🇮🇳 · $10
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  • Gihan Suranga Seneviratne 🇱🇰 · $50

    “Been where you are, it gets better. - Negombo”

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  • Jepkoech Tabitha Musyoka 🇰🇪 · $10
  • Baptiste Mathieu Joly 🇫🇷 · $100

    “Hope this helps. Thought of Kendall all day after reading this. - Bordeaux”

  • Gabriela E. Morales 🇲🇽 · $100
  • Grace H. Mitchell 🇨🇦 · $21

    “Rooting for you. Hope you get the rest soon. - Victoria”

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  • Faisal Naveed Mirza 🇵🇰 · $46

    “Hang in there. I'm in Multan, thinking of you.”

  • Jonathan K. Ross 🇺🇸 · $10

    “Keep your head up. Thought of Kendall all day after reading this. - San Jose”

  • Anonymous 🇵🇭 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇪🇸 · $35

    “Blessings. Please keep us posted. - Móstoles”

  • Lorena Fonseca 🇧🇷 · $20

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  • Good luck, Lauren. Get well soon. I went through something like this 13 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

    • How is Kendall doing now?

      • Praying for you, Lauren. I hope things turn around soon. I'll check back for the next update.

        • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Kendall.

          • Lauren D. HudsonOwnerAnswer

            Sure. The biggest one is hospital bed and mattress rental, $290. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one.

        • Get well soon. My neighbor in Bronx donated after I showed her your page

          • Thiện Anh DangAddress verified

            Stay strong, Lauren. Hope you get there.

            • Sending good thoughts, Lauren. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did!

              • Hope you get there. Put this on a community board in Tijuana this morning. All the best

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