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Dignity in old age: caring for Gerald

Gerald, 93, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $250 for a carer and medicines.

🇵🇭 Mandaue, Cebu, Philippines1,026 views
Benjamin E. Magsaysay
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Mandaue
I'm caring for my father, who's 93. After a heart attack Gerald can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Gerald desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Gerald worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $250 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $70 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $45 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $135 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Benjamin

  1. Small update. $228 so far, the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 55% now ($138). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled.

  • Alexandra F. Gonzales 🇦🇺 · $30

    “Every little bit. Only $30 but hope it helps. - Wollongong”

  • Javier F. Domínguez 🇺🇸 · $15
  • Grace Joy Lawal 🇳🇬 · $5
  • Anonymous 🇦🇺 · $28
  • Onyango Brian Massawe 🇺🇬 · $75
  • José Alexandre Peixoto 🇧🇷 · $15
  • Charlene R. Cloete 🇿🇦 · $25

    “My cousin told me about this one. - Durban”

  • Katherine H. Campos 🇦🇺 · $112.50

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  • keep going. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Wish I lived closer to San Jose so I could bring a meal. God bless.

    • Thinking of you. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Chennai.

      • keep going, Benjamin. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Greetings from Vadodara.

        $305.50 raised of $250

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