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Dignity in old age: caring for Fatma

Fatma, 75, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $3,750 for a carer and medicines.

๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฑ The Hague, South Holland, Netherlands2,061 views
Orhan Alp Can
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I'm caring for my mother, who's 75. After a heart attack Fatma can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Fatma desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Fatma worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $3,750 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (six months): $2,200 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $770 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $300 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $480 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself.

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  • Crystal D. Mendez ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $5
  • Manee Pornpimol Ngamsuk ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $100
  • Samir Tariq Youssef ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $75
  • Oky Haris Hutapea ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $20
  • Ernestina Ama Fuseini ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $15

    โ€œThought of Fatma all day after reading this. - Temaโ€

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $100
  • Taiga Hiroshi Fujimoto ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $20
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $75
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  • Hannah S. Owens ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $10
  • Maria Aline Silva ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10

    โ€œWish I could do more. Thought of Fatma all day after reading this. - Guarulhosโ€

  • Miles S. Reynolds ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $10
  • Mitu Akter ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25

    โ€œYou got this. My sister told me about this one. - Howrahโ€

  • Kirana Intan Gunawan ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $50
  • Rami Karim Qureshi ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $25
  • Efua Nancy Bonsu ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $30
  • Mihret Fikadu ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡น ยท $66
  • Dorcas Nafula Kato ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $10
  • Neha H. Khanna ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $80

    โ€œBlessings. Only $80 but hope it helps. - Hyderabadโ€

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  • Thinking of you and your family. Looking forward to the next update. Greetings from Tarragona.

    • Sending good thoughts. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor in Istanbul donated after I showed her your page.

      • hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My husband and I read this together. Love from London!

        • Sending good thoughts, Orhan. Shared this with my family. God bless

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