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Dignity in old age: caring for Can

Can can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $1,500.

🇹🇷 Gaziantep, Türkiye893 views
Elif Irmak Kaya
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Gaziantep
I'm caring for my father, who's 81. After a diagnosis of dementia Can can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Can desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Can worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,500 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $1,150 • Medication and prescriptions: $180 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $55 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $115 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it.

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  • sending good thoughts, Elif. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

    • Thanks for sharing this. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I went through something like this 2 years ago and strangers helped me out.

      • Good luck. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Wish I lived closer to Onitsha so I could bring a meal.

        • best of luck. Wishing Can a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

          • Praying for you. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My neighbor in Mississauga donated after I showed her your page. Greetings from Mississauga

            • Thinking of you and your family. Your post was clear and honest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Gaziantep.

              • thinking of you and your family, Elif. Shared this with my family. Sent it to 33 people at work.

                • Keep going, Elif. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. All the best

                  • Sending strength, Elif. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Take care.

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