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Dignity in old age: caring for Bảo

Bảo, 86, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $650 for a carer and medicines.

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Châu Phương Vu
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Hồ Chí Minh City
I'm caring for my father, who's 86. After a fall and hip fracture Bảo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Bảo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Bảo worked all of his life as a bus driver, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $650 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $430 • Medication and prescriptions: $55 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $50 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $115 Thank you so much.

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  • so sorry you're going through this. Hope you get there. After 29 years in engineering I know how hard it is to ask for anything

    • You're not alone. Shared this with my family. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

      • Keep going. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

        • sending love. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Love from Cầu Giấy.

          • Hope things get better soon. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'll check back for the next update.

            • Wishing you the best, Châu. I hope things turn around soon. Put this on a community board in Anaheim this morning. All the best.

              • Sending good thoughts. Your post was clear and honest. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. All the best

                • Rooting for you. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from Wudil.

                  • So sorry you're going through this, Châu. Hope this works out for you. Thinking of Hồ Chí Minh City.

                    • Keep going, Châu. Your post was clear and honest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day

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