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Dignity in old age: caring for Ariana

Ariana, 85, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $6,150 for a carer and medicines.

🇨🇦 Surrey, British Columbia, Canada4,884 views
Josiah A. Burns
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Surrey
I'm caring for my mother, who's 85. After worsening Parkinson's disease Ariana can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ariana desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Ariana worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $6,150 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $4,600 • Medication and prescriptions: $770 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $380 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $400 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Josiah

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  • Wishing you the best, Josiah. Shared this with my family

    • Sending strength. Hope this works out for you. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too.

      • hang in there, Josiah. Hope the doctors have good news. My husband and I read this together

        • Good luck, Josiah. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. All the best.

          • rooting for you. Shared it with a few friends. Wish I lived closer to Stellenbosch so I could bring a meal

            • So sorry you're going through this. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Take care.

              • Thinking of you. Your post was clear and honest. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Surrey.

                • Wishing you peace, Josiah. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Take care!

                  • Best of luck, Josiah. Your post was clear and honest. After 15 years in public service I know how hard it is to ask for anything.

                    • Jamila Manal LotfyPhoto verified

                      stay strong, Josiah. Hope the doctors have good news. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Take care.

                      • Shared this with my family. Greetings from Gangnam

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