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Dignity in old age: caring for Aparecida

Aparecida can't afford the care She needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $1,550.

🇧🇷 São Paulo, São Paulo, Brazil1,826 views
Felipe Pedro Pinto
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São Paulo
I'm caring for my mother, who's 76. After a diagnosis of dementia Aparecida can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Aparecida desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Aparecida worked all of her life as a shopkeeper, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,550 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $210 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $210 • Part-time carer (six months): $1,130 Thanks for reading all this. - Felipe

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  • Stay strong, Felipe. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

    • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Aparecida

      • Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. medication and prescriptions comes first ($210) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Fair thing to want to know.

    • good luck. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. All the best

      • Ahmed Zain BaigPhoto verified

        Take care, Felipe. Hope the doctors have good news. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Likoni

        • Thanks for sharing this. Shared it with a few friends. I'll check back for the next update. All the best!

          • Wishing you peace, Felipe. Looking forward to the next update. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Blessings!

            • Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. I went through something like this 14 years ago and strangers helped me out. Blessings.

              • You're not alone. Get well soon. I have a 11 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Love from Kochi

                • Praying for you. Hope this works out for you. Wish I lived closer to Thane so I could bring a meal.

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