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Care for Suren, 85: help cover a carer and medication in Johannesburg

Suren, 85, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,150 for a carer and medicines.

🇿🇦 Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa779 views
Sipho F W. Singh
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Johannesburg
I'm caring for my father, who's 85. After the death of his spouse Suren can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Suren desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Suren worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,150 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $930 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $80 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $140 Thanks for reading all this. - Sipho F

Updates from Sipho

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($115 in total) the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. Update from Johannesburg: I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. We're at 9% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

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  • Take care, Sipho F. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Liverpool.

    • Hope it all works out. Your post was clear and honest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Blessings

      • This could happen to any of us. Thinking of Johannesburg

        • Thanks for sharing this. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Wish I lived closer to San Jose so I could bring a meal. Blessings.

          • Stay strong. Get well soon. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

            • Stay strong, Sipho F. Your post was clear and honest.

              • Wishing Suren a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Blessings!

                • This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Anaheim this morning. Love from Anaheim.

                  • thinking of you and your family, Sipho F. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

                    • Wishing Suren a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I'll check back for the next update. Thinking of Johannesburg.

                      $141 raised of $1,150

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