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Back on our feet: André and a teenage son and a daughter in primary school in Rio de Janeiro

A single mother in Rio de Janeiro needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while André retrains.

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André Joaquim Mendes
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Rio de Janeiro
Last June I went through a sudden redundancy, and I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a school kitchen assistant, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a web developer in the evenings, which will triple my income by September, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $1,350 goes: • Rent top-up: $720 • Childcare and after-school care: $270 • Groceries and school meals: $260 • Course fees and exam costs: $100 I'll keep this page updated with receipts as things happen. - André

Updates from André

  1. Thank you all. We're at 68% now ($920). I'm honestly stunned. I made the first payment toward groceries and school meals.

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  • Jahid SahaQuestion

    Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Rio de Janeiro

    • Praying for you. Your post was clear and honest. Don't give up. Blessings.

      • Take care, André. Shared it with a few friends. Greetings from Tel Aviv.

        • sending strength, André. Your post was clear and honest

          • Best of luck, André. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I hope September is when things finally get easier. God bless

            • Lwazi KrugerQuestionAddress verified

              Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for André

              • Sure. The biggest one is rent top-up, $720. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Let me know if you want more detail.

            • Hope things get better soon, André. This could happen to any of us. My husband and I read this together.

              • Thinking of you. Shared this with my family. I'll check back for the next update

                • Stay strong. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Wish I lived closer to Indore so I could bring a meal

                  • Victoria SimsAddress verified

                    Sending strength, André. This could happen to any of us. Thinking of Rio de Janeiro!

                    • Wishing you the best, André. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Bogotá.

                      • Sending love, André. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Blessings.

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