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Valentina wants to stay at home - help fund eight months of care

Valentina, 96, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $5,250 for a carer and medicines.

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Valentina McDaniel
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I'm caring for me, who's 96. After worsening Parkinson's disease Valentina can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Valentina desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Valentina worked all of her life as a bus driver, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,250 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $4,200 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $175 • Medication and prescriptions: $875 Thanks for reading all this. - Valentina

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  • Best of luck, Valentina. Hope the doctors have good news. My neighbor in Berlin donated after I showed her your page. Take care.

    • So sorry you're going through this. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Novosibirsk.

      • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Calgary!

        • Valentina McDanielOwnerAnswerID verified

          Thank you. If you're in Calgary I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks for asking.

      • Skylar McBridePhoto verified

        Hope it all works out, Valentina. Gave what I could, wish it was more. After 20 years in farming I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

        • Wishing you peace, Valentina. Your post was clear and honest. Don't give up. Thinking of Calgary.

          • Thinking of you. Get well soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Take care.

            • Thinking of you, Valentina. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Glasgow

              • Hope it all works out, Valentina. Shared this with my family. I went through something like this 12 years ago and strangers helped me out.

                • Sending love. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor in Memphis donated after I showed her your page. Take care

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