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Shivam is a single parent of three children under 9 - help us after a divorce

After a divorce, Shivam is raising three children under 9 alone and needs $500 to stay afloat for 3 months.

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Shivam M. Tandon
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Nagpur
Since a divorce in August, I'm now raising three children under 9 on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a medical coder in the evenings, which will triple my income by December, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $500 goes: • Rent top-up: $175 • Childcare and after-school care: $155 • Groceries and school meals: $65 • Course fees and exam costs: $105 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Shivam

Updates from Shivam

  1. Quick update: $250 raised so far (50%). I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Adeline B. Nguyen 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Andriy Viktor Sidorov 🇮🇹 · $6
  • Tahmina Jannat Rahman 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Jacques L. Fortuin 🇿🇦 · $6
  • Jacob Ramirez 🇺🇸 · $100

    “Wish I could do more. Thought of Shivam all day after reading this. - Dayton”

  • Christian T. Barnes 🇺🇸 · $5

    “From my family to yours. Gave what I could this week. - Ann Arbor”

  • Nicholas W. Bates 🇺🇸 · $59
  • Emine Gizem Aydoğan 🇹🇷 · $100
  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Moin Haider Mirza 🇵🇰 · $10
  • Fahad Naveed Ahmed 🇵🇰 · $25
  • Samuel S. Watkins 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Anonymous 🇬🇭 · $5

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  • Sending strength, Shivam. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon

    • Take care, Shivam. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double!

      • Thinking of you, Shivam. Shared this with my family. Don't give up. Blessings.

        • You're not alone, Shivam. Your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Nagpur

          • Sending love, Shivam. Hope you get there. All the best.

            • Stay strong. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I hope December is when things finally get easier.

              • Stay strong. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of Nagpur.

                • Stay strong, Shivam. I hope things turn around soon. All the best

                  • I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Don't give up. Blessings

                    • Keep going, Shivam. This could happen to any of us. All the best!

                      • Diya B. ChaudharyPhoto verified

                        I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Sent it to 16 people at work.

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