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Saying goodbye to Ruan - help with funeral expenses

After the sudden passing of Ruan, the family is asking for help with the funeral home and burial costs.

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Zinhle M. Mthembu
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Sandton
Ruan, my uncle, passed away on 8 August after a stroke. He was 82 years old. He was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance. The funeral home has given us a quote of $800 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 20 August. I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Ruan to have a dignified farewell. Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers. Anything left over after the funeral will be donated to a local food bank. Where the $800 goes: • Funeral home services and casket: $540 • Cemetery plot and burial fees: $160 • Transport of the deceased: $45 • Memorial gathering for the family: $55 Thanks for reading all this. - Zinhle

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  • You're not alone, Zinhle. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did

    • Looking forward to the next update. Love from Houston

      • Sending strength, Zinhle. I hope things turn around soon. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from Eldoret.

        • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Zinhle

          • Zinhle M. MthembuOwnerAnswerID verified

            Funeral home services and casket is $540 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page.

        • Take care, Zinhle. Hope you get there. After 26 years in social work I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Thinking of Sandton.

          • Stay strong, Zinhle. Looking forward to the next update.

            • so sorry you're going through this, Zinhle. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Don't give up!

              • best of luck. Hope this works out for you. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

                • Zubby Danjuma BelloPhoto verified

                  best of luck, Zinhle. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

                  • Take care. I hope things turn around soon. After 14 years in accounting I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Riverside.

                    • so sorry you're going through this. Shared this with my family. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry.

                      • Praying for you, Zinhle. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't give up. Greetings from Montréal

                        • Brandon ShawID verified

                          Sending love, Zinhle. Hope you get there. Please keep us posted. Love from Bristol.

                          • Hang in there, Zinhle. I hope things turn around soon. I went through something like this 4 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

                            • You're not alone, Zinhle. Your post was clear and honest!

                              • wishing you peace. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from Munich.

                                • Sending strength. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

                                  • Best of luck, Zinhle. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Take care.

                                    • Thinking of you, Zinhle. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

                                      • Good luck, Zinhle. I hope things turn around soon. Greetings from San Diego

                                        • Good luck, Zinhle. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier

                                          • Hang in there, Zinhle. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Greetings from Mumbai.

                                            • Thinking of you and your family, Zinhle. Shared this with my family. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. All the best.

                                              • Aishwarya G. NairPhoto verified

                                                So sorry you're going through this. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Aswan

                                                • Hope things get better soon, Zinhle. Hope this works out for you. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Thinking of Sandton

                                                  • Vaishali B. ParmarPhoto verified

                                                    Wishing you peace, Zinhle. Shared this with my family. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. God bless.

                                                    • Sending love, Zinhle. Hope this works out for you. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Love from Los Angeles.

                                                      • Stay strong. Shared this with my family. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Thinking of Sandton.

                                                        • Grace ReynoldsID verified

                                                          I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'll check back for the next update. Love from Arusha!

                                                          • Shilpa R. MauryaID verified

                                                            So sorry you're going through this. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I hope November is when things finally get easier

                                                            • Sending love, Zinhle. Looking forward to the next update.

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