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Saying goodbye to Ika - help with funeral expenses

Oky lost his grandmother suddenly and the family can't cover funeral and burial costs of $850.

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Oky Wawan Wijaya
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Yogyakarta
Ika, my grandmother, passed away on 18 September after a long fight with kidney disease. She was 66 years old. She was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance. The funeral home has given us a quote of $850 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 28 September. I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Ika to have a dignified farewell. Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers. Anything left over after the funeral will be donated to the Yogyakarta hospice. Where the $850 goes: • Transport of the deceased: $25 • Cemetery plot and burial fees: $270 • Funeral home services and casket: $555 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to. - Oky

Updates from Oky

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($192 in total) the plan for transport of the deceased is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. We're at 37% thanks to 7 of you. the plan for cemetery plot and burial fees is now scheduled. More news soon.

  3. Update from Yogyakarta: I made the first payment toward funeral home services and casket. We're at 13% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

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  • keep going, Oky. Looking forward to the next update. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.

    • hang in there, Oky. Looking forward to the next update. Sent it to 23 people at work. Blessings

      • Susana R. SerranoQuestionAddress verified

        can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Yogyakarta

        • You're not alone, Oky. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did.

          • Hope you get there. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Love from Worcester.

            • Best of luck. Your post was clear and honest. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Take care.

              • Sending love, Oky. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My husband and I read this together

                • Hang in there, Oky. Shared this with my family. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care

                  • You're not alone, Oky. Hope this works out for you.

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