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Saying goodbye to Elena - help with funeral expenses

Elena passed away on 4 September; we're raising $5,650 for a respectful funeral in Bakersfield.

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Pablo N. Benítez
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Bakersfield
Elena, my wife, passed away on 4 September after complications from pneumonia. She was 92 years old. She was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance. The funeral home has given us a quote of $5,650 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 14 September. I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Elena to have a dignified farewell. Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers. Anything left over after the funeral will be donated to a neighborhood youth program. Where the $5,650 goes: • Funeral home services and casket: $3,400 • Cemetery plot and burial fees: $1,350 • Transport of the deceased: $380 • Memorial gathering for the family: $520 Whatever you can give, even just sharing this page, means a lot. - Pablo

Updates from Pablo

  1. Quick update: $1,807 raised so far (32%). I met with the funeral home and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Anonymous 🇮🇹 · $16
  • Jewel Arif Ghosh 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇮🇹 · $20
  • Anonymous 🇳🇬 · $20
  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $55

    “Small amount but sent with love. - Macon”

  • Mikhail Pavel Popov 🇺🇦 · $37
  • Jericho F. Pineda 🇵🇭 · $200
  • Asma Nada Belkacem 🇸🇦 · $10
  • Brooks Randolph 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Oskar Kamil Szymański 🇵🇱 · $20

    “Best of luck. Shared with friends too. - Gliwice”

  • Wesley F. Lewis 🇬🇧 · $50

    “You got this. My brother told me about this one. - Birmingham”

  • Sergio R. Reyes 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Gabriel B. Carrillo 🇪🇸 · $5
  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Zalak G. Apte 🇮🇳 · $20.50
  • Jide Bello Onyeama 🇳🇬 · $50

    “God bless. From Lagos with love.”

  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $75
  • Arturo R. Guerrero 🇪🇸 · $100

    “Hope the November deadline works out. - Alicante”

  • Lina Yasmin Yassin 🇬🇧 · $15
  • Anonymous 🇬🇧 · $5

    “Hang in there. My cousin told me about this one. - Sheffield”

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  • Dayo Segun AdebayoPhoto verified

    Hope things get better soon. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My mother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home

    • Thanks for sharing this, Pablo. Hope this works out for you. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Blessings.

      • Praying for you, Pablo. Shared it with a few friends. Love from Bowling Green.

        • take care, Pablo. Shared it with a few friends. Put this on a community board in Tacoma this morning.

          • Thinking of you and your family. Hope you get there. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Love from Hồ Chí Minh City!

            • thinking of you and your family. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Don't give up. All the best!

              • Rooting for you. Gave what I could, wish it was more. God bless!

                • Best of luck, Pablo. Hope you get there. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Love from Nashik.

                  • Michelle F. CarlsonVerified organization

                    Stay strong, Pablo. Hope this works out for you. Please keep us posted. Take care.

                    • sending love, Pablo. Looking forward to the next update. All the best

                      • Keep going. I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Guarulhos

                        • Thinking of you. Looking forward to the next update. Love from Soweto.

                          • good luck. Hope this works out for you. All the best

                            • Best of luck, Pablo. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Greetings from Udaipur.

                              • So sorry you're going through this. Looking forward to the next update. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

                                • Thinking of you, Pablo. I hope things turn around soon. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. God bless

                                  • Victor P. RamosVerified organization

                                    Hope you get there. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Love from Wudil.

                                    • Thinking of you, Pablo. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Wish I lived closer to San Francisco so I could bring a meal. Blessings!

                                      • rooting for you, Pablo. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. All the best!

                                        • It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care

                                          • Hang in there, Pablo. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes.

                                            • rooting for you, Pablo. Your post was clear and honest. Please keep us posted.

                                              • Wishing you the best, Pablo. I hope things turn around soon. I have a 9 year old who wants to send good wishes too. All the best

                                                • sending love. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Greetings from Saint-Denis.

                                                  • Take care, Pablo. Shared it with a few friends. Wish I lived closer to Kadıköy so I could bring a meal.

                                                    $5,832.50 raised of $5,650

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