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Ruma wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care
Ruma, 81, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $450 for a carer and medicines.
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I'm caring for my mother, who's 81. After a fall and hip fracture Ruma can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ruma desperately wants to stay at home.
I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer.
Ruma worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back.
Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference.
The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices.
Where the $450 goes:
• Part-time carer (six months): $250
• Medication and prescriptions: $80
• Hospital bed and mattress rental: $60
• Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60
Thank you for reading my story.
Updates from Mim
We're at 25% thanks to 2 of you. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.
Good news. Because of your gifts ($12 in total) we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.
- Themba Abrahams 🇿🇦 · $10 · 4d ago
- Natalia R. Lowe 🇺🇸 · $100 · 2w ago
- Bilal Warraich 🇵🇰 · $12 · 3w ago
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