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Ramesh is a single parent of a toddler and a seven-year-old - help us after my partner leaving

After my partner leaving, Ramesh is raising a toddler and a seven-year-old alone and needs $3,150 to stay afloat for 4 months.

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Ramesh A. Rawat
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Tallahassee
Last January I went through my partner leaving, and I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a driver, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as an electrician in the evenings, which will triple my income by April, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,150 goes: • Course fees and exam costs: $900 • Groceries and school meals: $780 • Rent top-up: $1,470 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to. - Ramesh

Updates from Ramesh

  1. Update from Tallahassee: we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. We're at 21% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. We're at 5% thanks to 7 of you. I made the first payment toward groceries and school meals. More news soon.

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  • Praying for you. This could happen to any of us. Don't give up. Take care.

    • Stay strong, Ramesh. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. I'm in logistics myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. All the best.

      • Wishing you the best. Hope this works out for you. Wish I lived closer to Ibadan so I could bring a meal.

        • Sending love. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Love from Los Angeles.

          • Fatoumata Mariam MbayeQuestionAddress verified

            is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Ramesh

            • Ramesh A. RawatOwnerAnswer

              Sure. The biggest one is course fees and exam costs, $900. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. It helps to be asked.

          • A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. I hope April is when things finally get easier. All the best!

            • Hang in there, Ramesh. Hope this works out for you. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. All the best.

              • Thinking of you and your family, Ramesh. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from Jeddah.

                • Vivaan H. ThakurAddress verified

                  Sending strength, Ramesh. Shared this with my family

                  • shared it with a few friends. My neighbor in Casablanca donated after I showed her your page. Greetings from Casablanca.

                    • Keep going, Ramesh. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'll check back for the next update. Blessings.

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