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Palate reconstruction surgery for Sophie: covering what insurance won't

Sophie needs palate reconstruction surgery at Saint Joseph Hospital and the family is $2,350 short of the hospital's estimate.

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Rick Pieter De Bruin
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Amsterdam
Sophie was diagnosed with a large ovarian cyst in August. The surgeon at Saint Joseph Hospital recommended palate reconstruction surgery, and She is scheduled for December. The hospital's financial office gave us a written estimate of $3,150, and after what the government subsidy will pay we're still $2,350 short. my wife has been in and out of Saint Joseph Hospital since August. The doctors say a large ovarian cyst will get worse without palate reconstruction surgery. We have emptied our savings and borrowed from relatives, but the estimate of $3,150 is more than we can find. While we wait, Sophie struggles with daily life and can't walk without help. Her family has taken turns caring for her, and I've cut my own work hours to be there. Rehabilitation is expected to take about 3 weeks. During that time Sophie won't be able to walk without help, so the costs keep growing. The money goes straight to the treatment bills, and I'll share the invoices as they're paid so you can see exactly what your gift did. Where the $2,350 goes: • Travel and lodging for the family: $430 • Pre-operative tests and imaging: $430 • Hospital stay (3 nights): $1,490 Thanks for being kind about this.
due date
2026-11-10
bill type
Hospital invoice

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  1. Quick update: $520 raised so far (22%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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    “Keep your head up. Thought of Sophie all day after reading this. - Makati”

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    “Happy to help. Thought of Sophie all day after reading this. - Kolkata”

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  • Hang in there. Your post was clear and honest. Sent it to 35 people at work.

    • Sending strength. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I went through something like this 7 years ago and strangers helped me out. Thinking of Amsterdam.

      • take care. Get well soon. I have a 6 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Surrey.

        • Praying for you, Rick. Hope this works out for you. I'm in public service myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

          • Hope it all works out. Hope the doctors have good news. Love from Hubballi

            • Best of luck, Rick. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it

              • Sending love. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from London.

                • Good luck, Rick. Hope you get there. Sent it to 21 people at work. Thinking of Amsterdam

                  • Good luck, Rick. This could happen to any of us. After 17 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything

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