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Neelam wants to stay at home - help fund four months of care

Help Neelam stay in her own home with four months of part-time care.

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Ravi M. Sandhu
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Winnipeg
I'm caring for my mother, who's 85. After a heart attack Neelam can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Neelam desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Neelam worked all of her life as a schoolteacher, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $3,600 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $3,050 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $290 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $260 If you can't give, please share this page. It does reach people.

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  1. Wanted to say thank you properly. 70% funded and I made the first payment toward hospital bed and mattress rental.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 36% now ($1,288). I'm honestly stunned. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts.

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  • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Neelam

    • Ravi M. SandhuOwnerAnswer

      Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. part-time carer (four months) comes first ($3,050) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Appreciate you taking the time.

  • take care. Wishing Neelam a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. All the best

    • Hope things get better soon, Ravi. I hope things turn around soon. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Take care.

      • Keep going, Ravi. Shared it with a few friends.

        • Good luck, Ravi. Hope the doctors have good news.

          • Sending love, Ravi. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side.

            • Thanks for sharing this, Ravi. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick.

              • Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My neighbor in Manchester donated after I showed her your page. Love from Manchester.

                • Hope it all works out, Ravi. Hope this works out for you.

                  • Wishing you peace, Ravi. Your post was clear and honest. My husband and I read this together.

                    • Hope things get better soon, Ravi. Hope this works out for you. I went through something like this 14 years ago and strangers helped me out.

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