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Mental health support for Mercedes after the loss of my brother

A course of EMDR therapy for Mercedes could change everything; the cost is $1,900.

🇺🇸 San Francisco, California, United States1,070 views
Tomás A. Valdez
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San Francisco
After the loss of my brother, Mercedes has struggled with anxiety, sleep and panic attacks. The doctor has referred her to EMDR therapy, but the public waiting list is 8 months, and private sessions at a private practice in San Francisco cost $110 each. Mercedes has been honest with her employer and taken some time off, but can't keep going without support. Therapy has already helped a little in the sessions Mercedes could afford. The therapist recommends 24 weekly sessions, and consistent help will make the difference. Asking for help with this has been the hardest part for Mercedes, and we're grateful for your kindness without judgment. Funds cover only therapy sessions, and I'll share progress updates (not private details) if I'm comfortable. Where the $1,900 goes: • 24 therapy sessions: $1,650 • Psychiatric assessment: $220 • Workbook and resources: $30 Thanks for being kind about this. - Tomás

Updates from Tomás

  1. 31% there. the plan for 24 therapy sessions is now scheduled. Thank you.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 13% now ($244). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

  3. Quick update: $119 raised so far (6%). we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Anonymous 🇬🇧 · $10
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  • Stella R. Sullivan 🇨🇦 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇳🇬 · $30

    “From my family to yours. Thought of Mercedes all day after reading this. - Wudil”

  • Sayali W. Solanki 🇮🇳 · $79.50
  • Salma Rahma Naguib 🇪🇬 · $100
  • Asad Haider Abbasi 🇵🇰 · $25
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  • Raghavan E. Menon 🇮🇳 · $5
  • Larysa Anastasia Egorov 🇺🇦 · $50
  • Rajeshwari S. Subramanian 🇮🇳 · $11
  • Anonymous 🇱🇰 · $75

    “Wish I could do more. My brother told me about this one. - Negombo”

  • Kunle Babatunde Obi 🇳🇬 · $25

    “From my family to yours. Thought of Mercedes all day after reading this. - Badagry”

  • Umesh M. Panwar 🇮🇳 · $250
  • Chebet Anyango Kipchoge 🇰🇪 · $25
  • Clara S. Valdez 🇦🇺 · $100
  • Kaylee P. Figueroa 🇺🇸 · $25
  • Santiago H. Leonard 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Halina Anna Jabłoński 🇵🇱 · $5
  • Nathalie Sanchez 🇫🇷 · $30

Reviews

3.2(6 reviews)

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  • Murat Gökhan Arslan🇹🇷Verified donor
    Went above and beyond

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Noor Huda Hussein🇫🇷Verified helper
    Reliable and compassionate

    The support I received was beyond what I expected. Not only did they help with the immediate need, but they also provided guidance for long-term solutions. I'm forever grateful.

  • Miguel Leonardo Bezerra🇧🇷Verified donor
    Honest and trustworthy

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

  • Nipa Rima Pramanik🇧🇩Verified donor
    Really cared about my situation

    Perfect example of someone making a real difference. They took time out of their busy schedule to help me and never made me feel like a burden.

  • Mim Sumaiya Begum🇧🇩Verified helper
    Made a real difference

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Dennis G. Gonzales🇵🇭Verified helper
    Helped when no one else could

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

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  • Paolo P. PascualAddress verifiedID verified

    Sending good thoughts, Tomás. Looking forward to the next update. I hope February is when things finally get easier. God bless!

    • Wishing Mercedes a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Take care.

      • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Greetings from Chandler.

        • Sending good thoughts, Tomás. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Blessings!

          • Praying for you, Tomás. I hope things turn around soon. Take care.

            • You're not alone. Your post was clear and honest. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Thinking of San Francisco.

              • Shanice J. BrownPhoto verified

                rooting for you, Tomás. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care.

                • keep going, Tomás. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. God bless.

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